Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Top Ten Couples Redux

Eight years ago, in another Top Ten Tuesday,  I almost managed to think up ten literary couples I liked. I've read...more books since then, so can I think of ten more?

1. Jayber Crow and Mattie. Jayber Crow (Wendell Berry)

I'm really hesitant to write anything here, because the Jayber-Mattie relationship of Jayber Crow is not a conventional love story. In my drafts is an essay called "Love Can Mean More", and it's about this relationship, which is so unique.  Suffice it to say,  it demonstrates love is more a giving of self to the other's benefit,  rather than just being hormone-drunk about someone's smile or caboose.

2. Jack and Joy, Becoming Mrs. Lewis

This is cheating a bit, because though Mrs. Lewis is a novel,  (one I finished only yesterday, in fact),  it's closely based on the true story of Joy Davidman and her dear friend, C.S. Lewis -- "Jack" to his friends.  I utterly enjoyed this account of their becoming friends, bonding over discussions of literature, philosophy, theology, the beauty of life -- as well as the slow deepening of their friendship as they became wedded to one another in thought, in work, and then finally -- in fact.   As with The Shadowlands, a movie based on the same relationship, it's become an instant favorite.

3. Tobias and Rachel, Animorphs

Tobias and Rachel are another atypical couple, though more in the romcom sense. Rachel is your high school queen: beautiful, popular, talented, etc. Tobias...is not. Tobias was on the margins even before he got stuck living in the body of a hawk who regularly dined on mice and rabbits.  And yet these two don't just come together just for some trope;   Rachel is a little more complex than she appears, and their relationship develops from that, in part. Rachel is wild in her own way, feral in battle, and is far more serious about the war the kids face against Earth's alien infiltrators than she lets on.  I think their seriousness and isolation links them.

4. Arthur and Molly Weasley, Harry Potter

I loved every bit of the Weasleys I saw in the HP books, and these two must have been incredible parents to have so many strong characters as kids.

5. Parzival and Art3mis, Ready Player One

I thought Ar3mis was cool from the moment Wil Wheaton described her (I first experienced RPO as an Audible presentation), and of course their relationship -- along with Parzival's  friendsihp with Aech --  is one of the most important elements of RPO, reminding them that relationships are far, far more important than glory or wealth.

6. Jane Eyre and Lord whathisname, Jane Eyre

They look so happy, don't they?
Rochester! That's it.  Jane really is the more memorable of these two, at least for me.  I still like this quote from the novel:

“I will hold to the principles received by me when I was sane, and not mad — as I am now. Laws and principles are not for the times when there is no temptation: they are for such moments as this, when body and soul rise in mutiny against their rigour; stringent are they; inviolate they shall be. If at my individual convenience I might break them, what would be their worth? They have a worth — so I have always believed; and if I cannot believe it now, it is because I am quite insane — quite insane: with my veins running fire, and my heart beating faster than I can count its throbs. Preconceived opinions, foregone determinations, are all I have this hour to stand by: there I plant my foot."
Rochester who really tests Jane's decision to hold to those principles, so they as a couple definitely warrant mentioning.

7. John and Abigail Adams, First Family

Okaaaay, so they're not a fictional couple. But since 2011, I have read an awful lot about the Adams,  and they were an example of iron sharpening iron.  Adams was a formidable figure in the revolution and an admirable -- if not widely admired -- president,   but I doubt could he could have been so resolute had he not had the good fortune to marry his greatest ally and intellectual equal.

8. Howard Roark and his Skyscraper, The Fountainhead

Theirs was a pairing more doomed than Romeo and Juliet, because the mob had to meddle.  They'll always be together, though, in that Big Apple in the Sky.

More seriously,  I remember All Other Nights as having an incredibly powerful relationship between a Jewish man serving as a Union spy in the Confederacy, and a southern belle who proves to be a master of intelligence gathering for her own side, but I can't remember her name.

9. Robin and Marjorie, Come Rack! Come Rope!

Robin and Marjorie are a young couple in love, seriously intent on creating a life together. But then Robin, an ardent Catholic, realizes a call to the  priesthood, despite the mortal peril this will put him in as a resident of Elizabethan England.  After leaning on Marjorie for advice, she does the utterly noble thing  and supports him regardless of his decision --  even though if he becomes a priest they'll have to be chaste friends instead of husband and wife. 

10. Bertie Wooster and Honoria Glossop, Code of the Woosters

So...Berrtie and Honoria aren't a couple, but Honoria was the funnest by FAR of Bertie's intended fiances -- those women who Bertie's wife intended him to marry, anyway, since Bertie was far more interested in drinking and playing the piano than consorting with the fairer sex -- and I loved that she made an end-series appearance (dancing!!) on the TV version of the Jeeves and Wooster stories. Unlike most of the women in the series, Honoria has the good sense not to take Bertie seriously --- to appreciate or laugh at him just as he is, rather than  fancying him as raw materials for a respectable husband like his aunt and various other personalities do.

And that's ten! I...mostly made it. I could have dropped John and Abigail and stuck in another purely fictional couple (Hannah and Nathan from Hannah Coulter), but that would have been two from Wendell Berry, and I wanted to avoid duplicating authors.   I really don't read a lot of fiction.


  1. Jane and Mr. Rochester are awesome.
    Arthur and Molly Weasley is a couple I'd never have thought of but really needs more recognition!

  2. Oh my gosh! I think Tobias and Rachel were my first ever ship, before I had any concept of what shipping was! They were basically Romeo and Juliet to pre-teen me. XD
    My favourite couples this week.

    1. Same here! I'm not sure how far the books went with their relationship. The TV show was a little more obvious about promoting it, which made middle-school me happy. :)

  3. Arthur and Molly are such a great couple!
    My TTT: https://jjbookblog.wordpress.com/2019/02/12/top-ten-tuesday-198/

  4. I'm on a long library list for Becoming Mrs. Lewis. Your comments about it are making hope it arrives much sooner than expected!

    This is my Top Ten Tuesday post.

    1. I hope you get it sooner than later! I read that book nonstop yesterday after I got off work. Finished it the same day I checked it out. O_O

  5. This is a great list. Roark and his Skyscraper really cracked my up. I like the idea of including a real life couple in the Adam’s. I also like the fact that you choose to include The Weasleys, that is an original choice.

    1. Using that cover in my original review probably snuck the idea into my head. ;)

      And thanks regarding the Weasleys...I figured the kids would get most of the love if any HP couples showed up. From the other blogs I've seen, most people are drawing from REALLY contemporary books.

  6. What a great list! Arthur and Molly Weasley are wonderful! So nice to see them on a list like this. Here is my Top Ten Tuesday

    1. I'm glad so many other people appreciate them! :)

  7. A great list filled with several books I should consider reading. If the rest are half as good as Jane Eyre and The Fountainhead I won't be disappointed.

    1. I would love to read a review of yours on Jayber Crow!

  8. yes in Ready Player One! I also like the couple in 1Q84, by Murakami

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    1. I think I included them in my earlier list, for wont of anything else. Honestly, I think they're highly overrated. Two teenagers getting hot for one another and then getting excessively dramatic and killing themselves? As the kids say, "Meh".

  10. And here I thought I was the only one who shipped Bertie and Honoria, lol! I love Jane and Rochester, too.

  11. Well, ditto! The rest of Aunt Agatha's plots are all a blur, bur Honoria stands out.

  12. These were different!

    John and Abigail Adams were definitely a good couple.

  13. The best couple - Howard Roark and his Skyscraper, lol.
    I have never thought of the Weasleys in such easy. There are not much romance shown, but you are right, they are great parents.


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